Had a Dad #2

December 13, 2011

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As he walked in the front door I greeted him at the top of the stairs.

“Thanks,” he said, as I handed over the card I bought him.

He didn’t need to open it to know what it was for.

Beaming, he said, “Now I can die a happy man.”

The brutal honesty that comes with acceptance is enough to paralyze most people.

Bowling was always his thing.

Three months into treatment and six months before the end, with Antimetabolites, Alkylating agents, Topoisomerase inhibitors and Anthracyclines pumping through his veins, my father bowled his first perfect game.

These miracles grace us in tiny, temporary doses. And I’ll never need another.

Part 1: Strength

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Had a Dad. #1

December 3, 2010

rob brink had a dad

December is my father's birthday month. Unless my math is wrong, which is highly likely, if he were still alive he'd be turning 64.

I've always wanted to write something about him. A book, perhaps. But not necessarily in traditional book form.

After nine years of pondering it, experimenting, being afraid, busy, and insecure—as well as dealing with the evolution of the Internet as we currently know it—I think I have the concept down.

This is the first bit of many...

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